Weekend report

It's been another action-packed weekend for the Dawsons. Saturday we had a visit from Uncle Stephen and Aunty Lucy - luckily the worst of the snow was over, and we were able to enjoy a short walk at Hatton Locks where the remnants of the snow and ice remained to provide a skating rink for the ducks on the canal.

On Sunday we enjoyed sharing in the special occasion of Gayle and Steve's daughter's christening. Rebecca looked so beautiful in her 100 year-old Christening robe, although we think Ben was a bit in awe of her - he doesn't look too sure of himself under Rebecca's close scrutiny. Our trip home included an eventful detour to Draycote Water - ask us about it some time, particularly if you need tips on what to do when your car gets stuck in mud. Sadly no photo, but it makes for a good dinner party story... When we got back to Kenilworth, we found our way blocked by a flood caused by the melted snow, captured on Josh and Heather's blog.

Wild weekend

Yesterday we headed up to deepest Derbyshire to join Louise on her wild hen weekend. "We" means all three of us - it was the only way Debbie could manage it with feeding Ben. Mark gave up his Saturday to join Gayle's hubby Steve on babysitting duty while Debbie enjoyed some girlie time, including a blissful afternoon in the pool / spa. It was great to catch up with old friends and meet some new ones, and Ben certainly seemed to enjoy the attention from all the ladies. Ben's poor behaviour as the day went on meant he had to sit in on some of the festivities, although we whisked him away before it got too rude! One day he'll be the envy of all his friends for having gate-crashed a real life hen party...

Time flies

Ben celebrated his two month birthday on Monday - we can't believe how fast the time is passing. Debbie and Ben met up with some of their NCT group friends, and the photo shows the babies getting to know each other. The little one to the right of Ben was only 10 days old, and had the same birth weight as Ben - a striking image of just how much he has changed in these first couple of months. The little girl on the right was born just a couple of days before Ben, and we were in hospital at the same time. Two months meant it was time for the first set of immunisations on Tuesday - Ben was a very brave little boy, and Mummy cried almost as much as he did! It was hard to tell whether they affected him much as he was having a grumpy day anyway, but he made up for it yesterday by giving his Daddy some beautiful smiles when he came home from work - a rare occurence as this is usually his grumble time.

Snow

Yesterday we woke up to Ben's first glimpse of snow. Just a slight covering, but snow nontheless. Ben was strategically positioned to give him the best view of this phenomenon, but as always was far more interested in the skylights above his head, a bit of plain wall and - well, anything else really. Debbie took him for a walk to give him first hand experience - but he just slept. Unfortunately, somewhere en route he seems to have picked up a nasty cold, and is now a very snotty little boy. Poor love.

G'day Grandparents

Ben was excited this Sunday to meet his Gran and Grandad Dawson again - it has been seven weeks since he last saw them, before they went off to Australia for Christmas and New Year. He has changed quite a bit since then, now looking quite the little boy in his dungarees. He was very pleased to have yet another opportunity to open some presents, including a genuine Australian kangaroo cuddly toy from Gran and Grandad and a lovely picture of a dolphin from his cousin Robyn. Ben says "Hi" to all his Australian relatives, including Great Uncle John and Great Aunt Jane (bet that makes you feel old!)

Keeping a sense of humour

Life's not been quite so easy in the Dawson home this week. Everyone told us that things would get better at 6 weeks, but Ben has had other ideas. We thought this picture somehow summed it up. What do you do with the boy who has everything and still isn't satisfied? We're holding on to the smiles and moments of adorable cuteness - they are like rays of sunshine breaking through the rain. A bit like the week's weather really.

Smiles

Our baby record book tells us to mark the date of Ben's first smile. We've been struggling with this as he's been teasing us with half smiles - we're never sure whether they're genuine, or just wind! However, this week we've been convinced that he's really smiling at us and responding to us. On Tuesday when Mark came home from work there was a definite smile when Mark tickled his feet. And yesterday we finally managed to capture one of these precious moments on the camera. Aaah!

Happy New Year!

A belated Happy New Year to everyone from the Dawsons! We celebrated the New Year in style this year at our friends Clare and Rich in Kenilworth. They bravely invited two couples with babies over for a top notch dinner party. One of the babies was on model behaviour, and slept the entire evening. The other wasn't quite so prepared to miss out on all the fun, and decided he would sit with us during dinner and join in the midnight celebrations (see above!) Maybe plying him with champagne would have helped on the sleep front...

Oh, and we were right about his chubbiness. Ben weighed in at almost 10lb when he visited the baby clinic on Tuesday. Must be all those mince pies Mummy has been eating. (looking at these photos, Daddy has been doing his fair share of eating too!)

Cutie!

Perhaps one day the novelty will wear off and we will stop taking hundreds of photos of our little boy, but at the moment we are desperate to capture every stage and mood. No real news to report after a fairly quiet few days at home, but we couldn't resist posting these couple of photos of Ben. Above Debbie is enjoying a cuddle with this little snugglebum - sporting his first 'grown up' dinosuar trouser and top set. We love moments like these! Below Ben is showing a decided lack of interest in trying to burp. He's not been weighed for a week or so, but we reckon the double chin is a sign that he's creeping up the chubbiness chart.

Playtime

Ben's new play gym is already proving a hit. Here he is exploring it for the first time and looking particularly cute! We don't think it will be long before he is interacting with it. Unfortunately it didn't take him long to christen it with a stomach full of milk - oh joy!
Ben's model Christmas behaviour doesn't seem to have lasted - as we write this he is stubbornly refusing to go down for a sleep and grumbling away in his cot...

First Christmas

This week we have had the joy of celebrating Ben's first Christmas. Here he is in our bed on Christmas morning surrounded by some of his presents - what a lucky boy he was! Ben is a little bit young to take in all his new toys and gifts, but Mummy and Daddy enjoyed opening them and playing with them. On Christmas morning we headed over to Gobowen for Christmas day with Debbie's family, and then spent a couple of days with Nan and Grandad in Wellington. Ben was on his best behaviour on Christmas Day, sleeping through Christmas dinner, and then waking up to charm everyone with cuddles later in the afternoon. We were very pleased with him!

Uncle and Aunty

Saturday saw a visit from Aunty Lucy and Uncle Stephen. They spent most of the day with us, plying us with food (thank you so much) and giving Ben plenty of cuddles, as well as a gorgeous pair of raindeer shoes for Christmas. A cold, grey day, but we still decided to go for a walk round to the castle and back to try to get Ben to sleep (successfully this time).

New wheels

Yesterday we picked up our new car - another Ford Focus. You can tell we've got a family now, and we're grown up, because this time it is an estate! But we're very pleased with it and Mark is a bit worried that Debbie might try to pinch it off him!

Today we took Ben for a first drive in the new car, and dressed him in his special fleecy 'digger' hat and mits for the event (-it was near freezing outside). Bless!

Tummy Time

We are trying to give Ben some 'tummy time' each day, to prevent him from getting a flat head! He sometimes seems a bit bewildered by it, but other times he quite enjoys this change of scenery and tries hard to push himself up and lift his head. We've seen quite a change in him in the last few days, as he seems more alert and responsive, and we're looking forward to playing with him properly as he starts to become more interactive.

'Tis the season to be jolly...

Christmas seems to have been a bit late arriving this year - the early arrival of our main present has been somewhat distracting! But on Sunday we finally put up our Christmas decorations. Ben seemed to be transfixed by the Christmas lights and we were pleased to find another means to pacify him. Now Ben's "My First Christmas" stocking is hanging on the mantelpiece and we feel like we're getting into the Christmas spririt.

Great Grandad

Today Ben had a bit of an adventure, taking an 85 mile trip to Gobowen, near Oswestry, to visit his Great Grandad. He spent a good hour on his best behaviour before getting a bit fretful when his Great Auntie and Uncle turned up - nothing personal! It was a special moment to introduce our son to his Great Grandad and to watch Ben getting to know his new-found friend.

The magic touch

As Mark returned to work on Wednesday, Nan and Grandad arrived to help out for a few days. Aside from doing a wonderful job of looking after Mummy and Daddy, they also enjoyed some precious moments with their new Grandson, like the one captured here - we love this photo of Ben with his Nan. They experienced all his various moods, but seemed to bring a calmness and soothing touch that helped to settle Ben at least some of the time. And when that didn't work, they did a grand job of walking the streets of Kenilworth while Mummy caught up on some sleep. Thanks so much to you both for your support.

Lazy morning

Tuesday this week was Mark's last day of paternity leave, so here we are enjoying a lie-in together in the morning - well, sort of! The blissful family photo belies the reality that our little chap was being pacified by the sound of the hairdryer in the background, and had definitely got out of bed on the wrong side! Like his Mummy, he's not always much of a morning person, nor an evening person for that matter...

Bathtime

We finally gave Ben his first bath on Sunday. Well, he was beginning to smell and we couldn't put it off any longer. We were quite scared because he hates being changed and we thought that a bath might be even worse. But we were pleasantly surprised to find that once in the water he seemed to be quite content. We were also pleased to see that he took great interest in the books we have put on his bookshelf. We're not certain if his eyes were fixed on the Biggles omnibus or Anne of Green Gables, but Mark has promised to sort that out for next time. We're not quite ready to bath him again yet, but we intend to do it a bit sooner than last time.

Wakey, wakey

Ben has been a bit jaundiced, which makes him a sleepy baby at times, and feeding a little difficult. We've been advised to wake him up to feed him every 3 hours, which seems so unnatural when he is blissfully sleeping - and we know that he'll be howling like mad by the evening. Here Mark is heading upstairs to the dreaded change table to try to rouse this sleepyhead. How cute does he look?

Jekyll and Hyde

Life in the Dawson household has become more complicated as we battle with Ben's mood swings. Sometimes he's a little Dr Jekyll...

... later he may become Mr Hyde...


Many of our visitors have yet to experience the latter but we assure you it is pretty common! Ben is certainly bringing us plenty of new challenges, and we feel we have so much to learn, but despite the screaming, feeding battles and explosive nappies we are still enjoying getting to know our little one. When he's quietly lying in our arms exploring our faces and the world around him we know we are truly blessed. We are also blessed with a wonderful church family who are supporting us with 'meals on wheels' every night. Time is such a commodity these days, we don't know where we would be without them. Thanks so much everyone. With grandparents on hand to offer wisdom, practical support and much needed hugs too, we're slowly making the adjustment to parenthood.

Official

Mark visited the Registrar's office to register Ben's birth on Wednesday and after a brief moment in whch he wondered whether to surprise Debbie with a different name - Cornelius or Sebastian perhaps - he relented and so now it's official. Benjamin William Dawson it is.

First walk

On Sunday we decided it was time we got out of the house and braved the cold wind to go for a short walk around the block with Ben and his grandparents. Here is Debbie getting some practice at pushing the pram - no doubt she will be braving all sorts of weather to do this over the weeks to come.

Ben seems to be settling in well at home. We have even managed to get several hours sleep both the last two nights. There was something magical about feeding by candlelight in the early hours of Saturday morning after we had a power cut. Hopefully this won't be a common occurence though!

Welcome home!

On Friday afternoon Ben and Debbie finally left hospital and came home with Dad. Here is Ben about to go through the front door after his first trip into the outside world and first car journey. He didn't seem particularly interested! He is wearing a cardigan his Granny Jones has knitted for him and covered in a baby blanket crocheted by Mark's Gran many years ago. A moment to treasure.

Baby Benjamin

It's taken us a few days to get round to posting this photograph - we seem to have been quite busy!

We were thrilled to welcome our beautiful son Benjamin William into the world on Wednesday 29th November 2006 at 3:23am. Ben weighed in at 7lb 9oz (despite Debbie's deceptively small bump!). Here he is pictured at about 13 hours old. He has totally won our hearts already and we are so grateful to God for entrusting him to us.